Why do young or older woman have kids when they not really ready? Is it to feel special? to feel love? or they really still do believe they can keep their baby daddy? After all the experience they went through probably with their first or maybe being there with their friend or even witnessing their mom single parent? Most important if they are not ready why not have an aboration if they going to kill them their selves? I always wonder that.
First reason I believe is that want to feel love because they never felt a love so strong and so unconditional. They usually didn't have parent that show them love and care. They was probably in foster care and never had a good influence. But most of the time they want to think they can keep a family together by having a baby. It can either keep ya'll closer or completely tire families apart. I just feel bad that they go through for so much but in the end it ends up being worst then it was from the beginning. Especially when they already had their first child it see it didn't change for the fist baby daddy then why go through more drama? It's not even worth it. But hey sometimes it does. That a risk you'll have to take but I still don't understand.
Single parent are hard but sometimes I don't feel bad when you know from the start the dad didn't want a kid or your relationship wasn't good to begin with. Why would you think it will make it better. It probably make the man or woman a better person but not a better relationship. When you grow up in a single parent home you would think that's not the life I want. I know that's how I think. I saw my mom struggle, living in the system and treated me and me sister awesome but she was lonely and depress. Why would anyone want to live like that. I don't understand why girls don't want to strive for excellence and better themselves and give a child the best of the best? that's so confusing to me. Well I guess everyone had problems.
Lastly, I strongly believe deep down if you know for a fact you're not ready why not aborant the unborn child. Why girls have a baby then realize they were right the whole time about not being ready and realize your life is over and you have to think of another life before yours. And they get stressed out and end up killing their own child. Or seeing that things haven't change between you and the baby daddy and end up hating the kid. I strongly believe that every pregnant woman should to mentally, physically and emotion evaluating before they choose for sure they want the kid. Because most of the time it for the wrong reason and ruining their own lives or they end up being an unfit mother and ruining their child lives. NO CHILDREN ASK to be born and have a horrible life.
Everyone should grow up and make the right decision. In the end of the day, its your life not mines. No one should play or bring a life into this world for the wrong reasons. I wish people would be considerate of people feelings and think about would my child be happy if I bring them to this world when I'm still not good and comfortable with myself? It's a big life change decision something you can't not turn back. It for life so make it right!
